Thursday, March 4, 2010

Random thoughts II...

+ Why is it easier for us to help,support and love friends and colleagues more than helping a brother or a sister...a fact that I can't interpret !!
Why is it easier for us to get close and intimate with strangers while we find it difficult to get close and intimate with people we live with and deal with everyday...our families !!



+ A male character can never be changed by another male...only a female can do so....a fact in life I am discovering



+ Usually I accept your guidance and advices but when it comes to him the case is different.
I don't believe you fully understand the situation....unless I do mutate to another version of "Him" then am not satisfying his expectations....anything I do will be not complete....He can't admit to you that he is wrong or that I did meet the expectations.....He cant' put limits to being extra meticulous....except with you....
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I am not pessimistic but I am trying to be logical....He will not be changed...at least not by me !!


+ The fact that I have to always watch my back and always be alert is not making it any easier...

+ I believe this is the phase when I have to love silently....give silently....support silently...forget all forms of judgment,guidance or advice...

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